Modern GraceSocial Confidence for Growing Girls

$29

A Parent-Guided Course for Ages 9-12

Modern Grace

Social Confidence & Manners for Growing Girls

Teach your daughter to move through the world with confidence, consideration, and self-respect. Not compliance—competence.

Join 500+ families who've found their grace

Mother and daughter having a meaningful conversation

Is Modern Grace Right for Your Family?

This course is perfect for you if...

This is for you if...

Your daughter is 9-12 and navigating new social situations
You want to teach confidence, not just compliance
You're looking for quality time with meaningful conversations
You want practical scripts, not just theory
You believe manners should empower, not diminish

You might wait if...

•Your daughter is under 8 or over 14
•You're looking for a quick fix (real change takes practice)
•You want your daughter to do this alone
•You prefer traditional 'rules-based' etiquette
•You don't have 30 minutes/week for parent-child time

How It Works

A simple, flexible approach that fits into your family's life

Learn Together

Each week, sit down with your daughter for a 30-minute module. Read the parent guidance first, then explore the content together.

Practice & Discuss

Use the scripts and scenarios to practice real situations. The 'For Your Daughter' activities make it fun and engaging.

Apply & Celebrate

Watch her confidence grow as she applies what she's learned. Track progress and celebrate milestones together.

~30 min/week

Go at your pace

180-day access

Everything You Get

A complete toolkit to help you build your daughter's social confidence

8 Comprehensive Modules

Deep, research-backed content covering body language, communication, boundaries, and social navigation

$400 value

100+ Practice Scripts

Word-for-word phrases for real situations—from saying no to handling gossip to talking to adults

$150 value

Interactive Scenarios

Branching 'choose your response' simulators to practice decision-making together

$100 value

24 Premium Printables

Beautiful worksheets, script cards, and reflection journals—Canva-quality design

$75 value

Parent-Guided Activities

Age-appropriate activities designed for you to do together with your daughter

$50 value

Progress Tracking

Visual progress dashboard with completion celebrations and milestone badges

Priceless

Total Value: $200+

Your Price: $29

One-time payment • 180-day access

A Different Kind of Etiquette

"Good manners are not about being 'nice' or quiet. They are about awareness, respect, and agency."

Manners are tools, not rules

Social skills are instruments for navigating the world, not rigid requirements to follow blindly.

Respect goes both directions

True courtesy involves both giving and expecting respect in return.

Kindness does not require self-sacrifice

Being considerate of others never means diminishing yourself.

Confidence and courtesy can coexist

Speaking up and being polite are not opposites—they're partners.

Culture matters—and cultures evolve

Understanding context while embracing positive change.

What You'll Help Her Learn

Through guided conversations, modeling, and practice, you'll help your daughter develop these essential skills.

Help her move through the world with ease

Teach her to treat others with intentional respect

Coach her to hold her own without aggression or apology

Guide her to understand social codes so she can choose how to use them

The Curriculum

8 comprehensive modules organized around real-life situations, not rigid rules.

Module 1

What Manners Actually Are

This foundational module reframes the entire concept of manners. Instead of teaching etiquette as a set of rules to follow, we position manners as powerful communication tools—skills that help your daughter navigate social situations with confidence and intention.

Module 2

Self-Respect Comes First

Before we can show respect to others effectively, we need to understand self-respect. This module focuses on the physical and verbal ways your daughter can project confidence and maintain boundaries—without aggression or apology.

Module 3

Everyday Social Manners

Navigate the social landscape of today with confidence. From greetings and introductions to phone etiquette and being a good guest, this module covers the practical social skills your daughter will use every day.

Module 4

Table & Public Etiquette

Feel comfortable in any setting—from school lunches to fancy restaurants. This module teaches practical table manners and public behavior skills with an emphasis on adaptability and comfort, not rigid rules or perfectionism.

What Mothers Are Saying

Real transformations from families who found their grace.

"My daughter went from avoiding eye contact to confidently introducing herself to adults. The transformation has been remarkable."

Sarah M.

Mother of 11-year-old

"Finally, a course that teaches manners without the outdated 'be a good girl' messaging. My daughter feels empowered, not diminished."

Jennifer L.

Mother of 10-year-old

"The boundary-setting module alone was worth it. My daughter now knows how to say no politely but firmly."

Rachel C.

Mother of 12-year-old

"We've tried other etiquette programs, but they felt stuffy and outdated. Modern Grace is different—it's about empowerment, not perfection. My daughter actually looks forward to our sessions!"

Michelle K.

Mother of 9-year-old

"The scripts are gold. When my daughter had a conflict with a friend, she used what she learned and handled it beautifully. I was so proud."

Amanda T.

Mother of 11-year-old

"Dr. Ely's approach is refreshing. This isn't about making girls smaller or quieter—it's about giving them tools to take up space confidently and kindly."

Lisa R.

Mother of 12-year-old

Hi, I'm Dr. Ely Schneider

Licensed Psychologist • PhD, HSPP, LP

I created Modern Grace because I saw too many girls being taught to be "nice" at the expense of their own voice. In my clinical work, I kept meeting bright, capable girls who had learned to shrink—to prioritize others' comfort over their own boundaries. This course is what I wish existed: a way to teach social confidence that empowers rather than diminishes.

Common Questions

Everything you need to know before enrolling

Not Your Grandmother's Etiquette

How Modern Grace is different

Traditional

Modern Grace

Focus

Rules to follow

Skills to use

Goal

Be polite and pleasing

Be confident and kind

Boundaries

Don't make waves

Firm but gracious

Voice

Speak when spoken to

Speak up with respect

Mistakes

Embarrassing failures

Learning opportunities

Approach

One-size-fits-all rules

Context-aware choices

Ready to Begin?

Give your daughter the gift of social confidence—skills she'll carry for a lifetime.

$29•180-Day Access

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